3 Essentials for a Great Life (Hope, Hard Work, Habits)

It is Thanksgiving morning.  I think that most of us in the United States can acknowledge that we have a great life.  The reality of our situation compared to the rest of the planet has been the result of three essential elements that form the backbone of our nation’s prosperity.  In order for the next generation to prosper further, I think we need to reinforce these elements at this critical juncture in history.  Are we going to slide into the doldrums of socialism, or are we going to reawaken the hallmarks of our Free Market, Capitalist society?:

Hope

Hope says that no matter what trials and tribulations we face things can, and will, get better.  It is born out of a faith in an all-powerful creator that loves us like the perfect father and is “working all things together for our good.”  It is much easier to have hope if one believes in a benevolent deity than if all you are counting on is the selfish nature of man!

Hard Work

Work Ethic has always played a crucial role in the success of our society.  Combined with our innovation, it has propelled the United States to lead the world in productivity.  One driving factor is that entrepreneurial small companies still employ more than half of the workforce in the US.  The little guy can, and still does, get ahead.  This potential has been fueled even more by the advent of the internet and the ability to be productive from almost anywhere at any time.

Yet we have an epidemic of malaise that seems to have hit our workforce, and a political machine that wants to create a society dependent upon governmental intervention and entitlements.  Gone is the stigma associated with accepting welfare and unemployment. Instead we have a liberal elite who want to be seen as Robin Hood, stealing from the “evil” rich and distributing to the “less fortunate.”  In reality they are stealing from hard-working people who have been wise with what has been entrusted to them, often to support people who neither work hard, nor make wise choices with their lives.

There certainly are people with needs to be addressed, but government has proven to be the least efficient vehicle for that aid, and it creates generational dependence.  Rather than giving a leg up, they tread on the hopes and dreams that can lift people out of their current state.

Habits

This is where the rubber hits the road.  Is our society rewarding habits like responsible financial management, saving and giving, or is it rewarding irresponsible childish habits like living off the work of others, spending more than they have, and then expecting others taxes to pay their debt because it is not “fair.”  Are we rewarding the young adults who devise a plan to get the education they need to develop a career track, working their way through college doing internships that show they have learned things that have value in the marketplace, or do we reward the ones who spend 5 years at college on low-income grants playing beer pong and throwing keggers, and then come out and lament that the piece of paper they have been handed is not Willie Wonka’s golden ticket to wealth and riches?

I am so thankful for the freedom and opportunity our country affords.  I pray today that we do not allow hopelessness to rob us of the values that make us great.  I have children, and hopefully one day grandchildren, that need to be free to succeed and achieve an even greater life than the one I have been blessed to lead.

The Dreamer, The Doer, or The Dud. Which Do YOU Choose?

I have a great respect for Dreamers.  The Bible tells us that “without a vision, the people perish.”  We need visionaries (dreamers) to inspire us to accomplish the tremendous things of which we are capable.

Then there are the Duds.  I call these people the Eeyore’s of the world.  You know; the donkey from  Winnie the Pooh stories?  They are the ones that can tell you, at length, every reason something will not work and every bad thing that happened to anyone who ever tried to accomplish anything!  They are the “naysayers,” the “wet blankets,” the “glass ALL empty because it has a hole in the bottom that can never be repaired,” crowd.  They will drain every ounce of positive energy from you if you hang around them too long. I would rather spend my life around a Dreamer that never accomplishes anything than a Dud who never even dares to dream.

Finally there is the group of people to which I aspire.  They are the Doers.  This group is composed of Dreamers that are accomplishing their dreams in a way that inspires others to dream and do as well!  They are leaders not only by virtue of what they have done, but who they are.  They realize that dreams are great, but no dream comes to pass without help from others.  They have learned “no man is an island.”  To that end, they engage others in the process of actualizing their dream by first helping others dream and accomplish their dreams.  They are the “Connectors” of this world, building networks of Dreamers and Doers, some of which they have converted from Duds!

There are three steps by which one can move from either Dud, or Dreamer and become a Doer.  They are:

FOLLOW FIRST

One of the biggest reasons someone is a Dud is they remain in isolation.  Something is broken or dead inside them.  There are many reasons that might have caused this which are inconsequential, but what Duds have in common is a total lack of HOPE!  Their natural demeanor caused by this state of hopelessness drives people away from them, and drives them away from people!  They are the people “without a vision.”  The first step for them to move towards dreaming is to FORCE themselves to be around Dreamers and Doers who have enough HOPE to spare!  In fact, when one is around the latter groups they will catch HOPE like a virus.  It is contagious.  This is a fact that has been exploited by cult leaders and dictators for all of history, so it is important to follow people whose dreams and visions are grounded in TRUTH.

For Dreamers, following is hard!  They are the visionaries pulling others in their wake towards their dreams.  Doers, however, have learned to value others and recognize that others have knowledge, skills, connections and influence that can be leveraged for the sake of the dream.  In order to accomplish the dream they often have to first serve and submit to authority.  They must work their way through infrastructures and bureaucracies to find the resources, human and otherwise, to bring their vision to pass.

FOUNDATION NEXT

At this step we have lost all Duds.  They have either been converted or left behind.  Now it is all about what turns Dreamers into Doers.  Someone once said “A dream without a plan is just a wish.”  We all know dreamers that have never accomplished anything.  It is so prevalent in this generation that to be called a Dreamer is an insult!  There are two reasons many Dreamers fail to realize their dreams:

1.  Lack of a plan:  Usually caused by ignorance or laziness.

2.  Lack of a good plan:  Most likely caused by never FOLLOWING.  Dreamers create a plan based on their own thinking, failing to leverage the wisdom of others (even the pitfalls one could learn from the Duds), or the resources in the hands of others.

FINISH STRONG

The last step to go from Dreamer to Doer is the hardest.  It is Executing the Plan.  Despite the best plans, and dreamers that have secured the hearts and minds of others by following first, DREAMS ARE HARD TO ACHIEVE!  They take time that requires patience, energy that requires endurance, and will be met with much resistance which will require perseverance.  These traits are rare in our “Microwave”, “Gotta Have It Now,” culture.  Many dreamers have abandoned their quest within steps of the summit because they allowed their hope to be stolen by the blinding storm that kept them from seeing they were so close to the top.  The last lesson here, as stated in a previous blog post is, NEVER GIVE UP!